Is it time for a sign or signal???

[kacee]

We have been so busy lately. At night my dh and I just fall into bed. There have been times that I want to do it :o :newwink:, but he looks tired!!

Is it time for a signal or sign?
I heard of one couple who would light a candle by the bed. HEHHHEHE, till one night they had a fight. When she went into the room the candle was on, so she went and got cold water and poured it on it!!


Soo... Do you have a signal or sign?

If you don't, What would your signal or sign be??

I have seen those pillows with cute sayings on them What would your's say?

[kat]

kacee, my experience has been unless he's dead, he's never too tired or too sick, or too anything. :lol: I remember once approaching dh (who was sick at the time, but hey we were still newlyweds) I opened my robe and asked, "are you too sick?" His reply, "I'm sick, I'm not dead!"

[kathleen]

If my husband or I have been thinking throughout the day that it is time for some romance, one will ask the other what their plans are for the evening ... then my husband will usually wiggle his eyebrows ... we don't usually go to be at the same time because of our work schedules

(He laughs because if it is Thursday night, I will tell him that it has to be before E.R. comes on or after it goes of...HA ha ha.

[RCT]

usaually one of us will ask, anything good on TV tonight? that's usually a good signal...LOL.... sometimes we say "how you doing?" like Joey on friends....that just kills me....LOL... :lol:

[Diane]

No signals... I like it to be spontaneous. Nothing really planned unless it's our anniversary or something special... then it's a given. :) Honestly, I HATE making plans or promises that I may not be able to keep. If I make a promise/plans in the middle of the afternoon when I'm not tired, I may have the best of intentions but... when evening comes around I might find myself totally exhausted and much too tired to even want to think about doing it. LOL I don't like disappointing my dh so I've just made it a point never make any big plans ahead of time. :)

Diane... :wave: