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RCT
06-17-2008, 11:34 PM
My grandmother died yesterday, :bawling:

She married my Mothers father (my grandpa) back in 1976, she was wonderful, the only real grand mother we had, as my fathers mother lived back east...she was a teacher, so we would spend lots of time with my grandparents in the summer....she was fun, alway had time to listen and share....she will be missed....the last few years she had had a few strokes, and was diagnosed with Alzheimer's. It was pretty rough on her daughters.

I was notified by an emailed, which hurt, then I goggled my grandmothers name and obituary notice, for funeral information...it was a beautifully written notice, but I was so sad not to see my mother or brother and my name listed as survivors.... it hurt not to be recognized as one of her grandchildren, I wonder why we were left off?

She will be missed and remembered in my heart for always.

Cathy
06-18-2008, 05:30 AM
Renee- I'm so sorry for your loss.

Amy
06-18-2008, 07:08 AM
I am sorry to hear of your loss. There is no telling what goes through people's minds and why they choose to overlook those things. Was this your grandfather's 2nd wife?

AnnW
06-18-2008, 07:12 AM
i am sorry for your loss.
maybe because your mother wasn't survived by her? but like Amy, who knows.

RCT
06-18-2008, 08:12 AM
Thanks ladies

Diane
06-18-2008, 08:35 AM
(((((RENEE))))) I'm so sorry for your loss. :(

Who knows why some people do what they do. :rolleyes: When dh's mom/dad passed away we even included dh's foster brother's/sister. They were a very important part of their lives and we wouldn't have thought not to include them.

vea29
06-18-2008, 09:12 AM
Renee~ Sorry for your loss.

It might have been that someone,who did not know the closeness your relationship with her, wrote it. (((hug)))

But know that you know and she knew and that's all that matters!

littlesista06
06-18-2008, 09:42 AM
((((((((((((Renee)))))))))))

PamE
06-18-2008, 11:34 AM
{{{{{Renee}}}}} I am so sorry for your loss and the added hurt. :\

Leigh
06-18-2008, 11:54 AM
((((((Renee))))))

http://i134.photobucket.com/albums/q107/jbudden1969/loss-2.jpg

angie r
06-18-2008, 02:43 PM
I'm so sorry Renee ((((hugs))))

Melody
06-18-2008, 06:46 PM
Awww, Renee. I'm so sorry. ((hugs))

DMS
06-18-2008, 07:59 PM
Sorry for your loss Renee.

Mickey
06-19-2008, 10:42 PM
I'm so sorry, Renee.

Are you going to the service? Can you write something and have it read at the service--from her granddaughter?