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Marla
11-20-2001, 05:22 PM
When I brought my son home from school he went upstairs for a rest. After about 45 minutes I went to check on him. He told me that he was feeling better. When I asked him if he still had a sore throat, he replied no. Hmmmmm????? Mother's intuition kicked in , and then I asked my DS (9) did something happen at school. The tears came flowing out :bigcry: and he told me that one of his friends had spilled orange juice all over the hall after lunch. My DS (very sensitive) and another little boy offered to help clean it up. They grabbed some paper towels, and just then the janitor came and told them that was not what the paper was for. The janitor then said that he would give them a mop, and they were to return it at a specific location.

The trio cleaned up the mess, while the original little boy began to panic and say what if they get suspended for making a mess (accident), and if someone removes the mop after they return it.

OMG :( to be young and worry about everything. Of course, then they went outside to play for recess, but all along my DS (extremely worried now) starts to not feel great, gets pale, and goes to the office with a "sore throat".

I can't be mad at my DS ?( for being so cautious and helpful, can't be mad at the janitor, because he didn't nothing wrong. I just tried to explain to my son (who has never been in trouble at school) that they don't suspend children for cleaning up and helping, nor would they if someone else took the mop. I told him that if he was ever concerned, to talk to his teacher, and not exaggerate an illness (which was really his nerves taking over ).

What an exciting afternoon huh???? :rolleyes:

KarlaB
11-20-2001, 05:36 PM
Wow! Sounds like me as a kid. I remember going home with tummy aches - nerves - all of the time in first grade, but don't remember what caused me to be so nervous because I loved my first grade teacher...probably just missed my mom...? ?(

Glad your ds told you what was bothering him and that you guys could talk about it. :)

AnnW
11-20-2001, 05:40 PM
Bless his little heart!!!!!!!!

Amy
11-20-2001, 05:48 PM
Give yourself and your ds a big hug-sounds like you are doing a great job of raising a responsible child!

Marla
11-20-2001, 05:55 PM
Originally posted by Amy/CO
Give yourself and your ds a big hug-sounds like you are doing a great job of raising a responsible child!

Thanks Amy for the vote of confidence :D

Diane
11-20-2001, 06:08 PM
Poor little guy... what a little sweetheart! I hope you gave him a big hug... :)

Diane... :wave:

Cathy
11-20-2001, 06:36 PM
So touching sometimes the way kids perceive rules, adults, and punishment. I know you reassured him. It's great that he helped out his friend. Glad he's not sick. That's a relief I'm sure.

RCT
11-20-2001, 07:26 PM
Well at least he isn't really sick :sick: that and the fact that he is so sweet and sensitive...I love that...Hope you two had a great talk about how great it was for him to help his friend and what a great job he did...no one will ever get expelled for cleaning up a place...LOL...

Glad he isn't ill...

Marla
11-21-2001, 03:10 PM
We had a long talk and now he understands that he'll never get in trouble for doing a good deed.

MaryL
11-21-2001, 05:04 PM
Your ds sounds like my oldest ds. He is incredibly sensitive...and wants to please people. He's friendly, and outgoing at some times....and at other times he is very introverted! He doesn't like to be called on in school unless he knows the answer...for sure! Yet, he participates quite well in discussions. My younger ds....quite the opposite! Asked me the other day what happens in "detention"! LOL I said, "You don't want to find out...and I don't want you to get sent there." My "sensitive" child wouldn't even THINK about detention! Yikes... it's so funny how different they are. Your ds sounds like a gem!

Leigh
11-21-2001, 06:12 PM
Well I guess this answers the question that I posted earlier. I asked how he was doing. I am glad to hear that he wasn't really sick, and wanted to let you know that you must have a really sweet little boy. I am glad that he knows now that he will not be expelled for helping.