Planned to be on the list

[Karen]

Well, I hadn't shared this with many people here where I live, but feel like I need to tell someone...Dh and I just returned from a trip and I was planning on posting that I was joining the "list"...expecting and due on Nov 9! I was just waiting to hit 12 weeks. But, I miscarried while we were out of town. In a way, it was a blessing in disguise that I was with dh at his conference, otherwise I would've been home alone our 3yo dd and no family around to help.

I tend to be rather clinical about these things (happened before), but it hits me later. Especially since almost everyone I know up here is pregnant. Oh well, that's life I suppose.

Thanks for letting me "talk". Hopefully I will make it on the "list" sometime in the future.

[MaryL]

{{{Karen}}} you might not be on that "list", but you're always on our list of great people!!!

[Marla]

Karen (((((hugs))))). Just to let you know that I am thinking of you!

[angie r]

I'm so sorry karen (((hugs)))

[Diane]

I'm so sorry Karen.... (((((HUGS))))) If you ever need an ear... we'll all be here for you. Take care. :)

Diane... :wave:

[littlesista06]

Karen, my thoughts are with you and your dh. I'm so sorry this happened and that it is not the first time - I'm glad you opened up here, it sure does help. There are lots of us here to listen and get you through this.


{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}

[AnnW]

I am so sorry for your loss!!!

[Cathy]

I'm so sorry, Karen. ((((hug))))

[RCT]

I'm sorry for your loss Karen....{{{{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}}

[Linda/NE]

I'm so sorry!!

[Amy]

I so admire your outlook! I am truly sorry for your loss.

[KarlaB]

So sorry to hear about your loss!! Thinking of you!!

[Karen]

Wow...thank you all for your warm responses and thoughts. I really appreciate it. I think it is sinking in now that we are back from our trip...Today, dh and I decided that we were definitely feeling depressed...I don't feel like doing anything and I am usually ready to go, workout 5 days a week, etc. Now I just don't care. I think it's that I had my summer and fall "planned"...starting to think about new things for the baby, got my maternity clothes out...now I have to completely recalibrate. I'm thankful to be able to check in here daily (or usually twice daily :) )

Thanks again!

[littlesista06]

Oh Karen, I'm so sorry. I understand how you're feeling. I had a neighbor return some of my maternity clothes this weekend - ugh.
Keep leaning on dh and vice versa and keep checking in here.... we are happy to listen and the therapy is free!!! ;) {{{hugs}}}