Originally Posted by SpeechMom
Are you talking about dating the first time around or the 2nd time as an adult?
it always depended on who asked. in college (or high school) if it was a girl's dance and I asked, I paid. If the guy asked me out...he paid.
DH paid until we started getting serious (unless I was treating) and then it just depended.
For ds and his group, it's pretty much the way I did it in high school. But they do group dating so much that everyone pays their own way. The boys that actually have girlfriends pretty much pay most of the time (unless it's a girl's dance)