Ok.. A little about my hectic home life. I have 5 children. One is my stepdaughter.. She is 6, and has been through more then most adults in one lifetime... Her mother lost custody of her to her father {whom I am with} and she has very outrage fits of anger. She has put holes in her wall and kicks the walls when she doesnt get her way. She name calls, and is very aggressive towards my 9 year old son. She has been through an emotional rollercoaster in her 6 years.. and her behavior is understandable but how does one start the process of her letting go of that anger.. WITHOUT seeing a doctor or being put on some kind of med to make her quiet... Has anyone been in this situation before?

ANY advice is welcome