What hppens if you get "found out"? Can you legitimately transfer into that school? Here, we can go to any school in our district as a transfer if there is room, not just our "home" school. What is the general reaction at this school to people who live out of the area? Will there be hesitations about making play dates with someone who "doesn't live in the neighborhood"? Any resentments that you are choosing the school but not the neighborhood. Our school is at limits now, but a few years ago, the whole transfer issue was very controversial. Alot of people felt resentment that they had "paid up to live in the neighborhood and get the good school". Not saying it is right, but that's how it was. Will that happen at this new school?
When you move, will she still be able to go to this new school? Is this a school that she will stay in for all elementary? If you are going to move "in the next five years, hopefully sooner" couldn't you move it up?
What are your dh's hestitations?
Last edited by AnnW; 04-22-2002 at 08:30 AM.
just keep on swimming!